I asked in the graphql discord server #relay channel, what people used to build their graphql relay style backends.
Here I’ll list the responses.
Language: Go
Toolkit: gqlgen with ent and entgql extension
Link: https://entgo.io/docs/tutorial-setup/
I made a starter package one can clone and adapt. It uses openid-connect for authentication and postgresql as the data storage. It can also use sqlite in-memory for development purposes.
https://github.com/dlukt/graphql-backend-starter
Language: Scala
Toolkit: Caliban
Link: https://ghostdogpr.github.io/caliban/docs/relay-connections.html
Language: Node.js
Toolkit: Pothos
Link: https://pothos-graphql.dev/docs/plugins/relay
Another member of the graphql discord server created a starter package with Prisma, Pothos and Better Auth.
https://github.com/nkzw-tech/server-template
If you know more, please comment and I’ll extend the post